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When Tara Met Blog
Wednesday, September 27, 2006
I'm in the NY Times!

I only had to harass the feisty reporter and insult the paper on my blog here to have it happen. The reporter, Matt Villano, respected my gumption and equal feistiness though and included me in his piece and even added in the idea about companies encouraging blogging, which is what I originally pitched him. So sometimes it pays to speak your mind--even if you're in PR. 

Check out the resulting story in the NY Times Circuits section page 5: Blogging the Hand That Feeds You 

I'm mentioned in three graphs.  I'm so stoked about it. The story also mentions that a blog is created every second, wow! 

Here's the excerpt

"Another example of the evolution of business blogs is a site named When Tara Met Blog. It is a personal mouthpiece for Tara Renee Settembre, an account executive with the Horn Group, a public-relations company in New York. Ms. Settembre writes about all sorts of experiences, from buying lip plumpers to harassing feisty reporters.

When she recently decided to move to California, she broke the news on her blog. The site has the full endorsement of her employer, which links to it on the corporate Web site and mentions it to interested clients. As her blog has become more popular, Ms. Settembre has even received permission to bill some of the time she spends writing it as professional development.

“I can’t help but think it is pretty awesome and modern of them,” she wrote in a recent post. She added that the company continued to encourage her to write, despite the fact that the blog “isn’t industry-related and sometimes has questionable content.”


Posted by Tara at 10:12 AM PDT
Updated: Wednesday, September 27, 2006 4:20 PM PDT
Friday, September 22, 2006
Shipping of Fools

So apparently 2-to-3 day Priority Mail means the post office will aim to get your stuff there in two to three days. They will try their "best," but there isn't a guarantee. Thus, even though you shell out the extra $$ for priority mailing your stuff can technically take up to two freakin weeks to get there.

Here I was, thinking that if I shelled out the bigger bucks my stuff could arrive before I started work on Monday and that way I could get settled in over the weekend and not worry about when my stuff would arrive and how to pick it up. Yet, that's exactly what I'm doing now. Only one of my four packages has arrived and it wasn't even the one with my shoes or pressed pants and dress shirts. I mailed them all on the same day yet...only one has arrived five days later. So riddle me this, why do postmen go postal? I would think it would be the people shipping and waiting to receive packages and not the deliverer. Oh well, what can I do but bitch in this post?

In the meantime (3 days), I have to lease a car and get an insurance provider, pick up a chest of draws found on craigslist and yes, have some fun. It seems I arrived on a good weekend, The San Gennaro Italian feast is going on here too and a Venice Block Party. I'll report back.

PS: How can Grey's Anatomy make me cry every episode?


Posted by Tara at 1:05 PM PDT
Updated: Friday, September 22, 2006 1:18 PM PDT
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
The Long Goodbye

So you never realize how much crap one has until you actually try to pack it and ship it. Yeeks. Not fun and very stressful.  

Besides the errand stuff that had to be done before the move, I made sure I did a couple of things before I left the City, like take in another Yankees game on home field while I still could; they beat the Devil Rays 8 to 4. Also, ate at Tao, since I had been wanting to since I moved here and luckily I wasn't disappointed, especially since I'm a sucker for ambiance. I hit up Florent for their fries-- the place has became a tradition for my friends and I to visit before returning home after a long night out, it's a definite hangover preventer too. Had dim sum again at Jing Fong, since the San Gennaro festival in Little Italy was way too crowded because we went right during the parade time.

I crammed in four back-to-back goodbye parties too: one long night out with my coworkers, another with my NYC friends, then with my girls in CT and a big dinner with family friends.

Here are some of the photos that are fit to post of all the goodbying:

work group

Now I'm finally off to LA, but as they say, if I can make it here I can make it anywhere, so California here I come!

Photo opp: A few weeks back when I went to Boston I had gone to the lounge Sanctuary on State Street with some friends and I just saw now that I'm in their site's picture gallery (it's the fifth pic on the page).


Posted by Tara at 12:30 PM PDT
Updated: Thursday, September 21, 2006 12:32 PM PDT
Thursday, September 14, 2006
Best Cupcakes in Manhattan

So of course just when I'm leaving, I find my favorite cupcake spot in Manhattan.

Keep in mind that I live near the tempting Magnolia Bakery and their cupcakes are good, yes, but they aren't all that. Billy's, their spin off, is a little better and then there were some disappointments at Burgers & Cupcakes and Eleni's BUT now I've found ambrosia at Sugar Sweet Sunshine on the Lower East Side.

It was recommended to me by Nichelle, a blogger at Cupcakes Take the Cake. We were chatting at a pre-fashion week party and I eagerly asked the cupcake aficionado what her favorite cupcake in New York City is and she quickly replied, Sugar Sweet Sunshine--not to be mistaken with the fun independent film that I wrote about, Little Miss Sunshine.

So on a mission, two of my girlfriends and I headed there after work to try for ourselves. I admit I was skeptical but eager and very hungry. I ordered their sunshine cupcake ($1.50) which is a vanilla cake and buttercream frosting and their lemon cupcake. Sunshine was amazing. The cake was really moist and flavorful and the frosting was sweet and creamy. Way better than Magnolia's and without the line and a quarter cheaper a cup. My friends tried their red velvet cupcake and pumpkin spice instead of the lemon one, both of which were received with enthusiastic moaning.

The place itself has a relaxed coffee shop feel to it that invites visitors to stay and eat instead of taking it to go.  

So forget the line and two dozen limits at Magnolia's and head to Sugar Sweet Sunshine on 126 Rivington Street. The NY Press agrees by the way. Enjoy!

News: Sorry, Cupcake, You're Not Welcome in Class


Posted by Tara at 7:54 AM PDT
Updated: Wednesday, September 27, 2006 2:56 PM PDT
Tuesday, September 12, 2006
Oh, the Places You'll Go!

I'm moving to California. Yup, I figured the direct, rip the band aid off approach would be best. To Los Angeles' Venice Beach area to be specific, only a block away from the sand. I'll also be living with my boyfriend, who I met here on a subway platform but he moved out there two months ago (read more). It was on the E line stop, 52nd Street, in case you were wondering. I have a job there already too, its with my former PR agency's LA branch. And remember several months ago a fortune teller told me that she saw the west coast as a positive place for me and that was without me asking her that question, she just randomly said it.

Now, to address some of your concerns about When Tara Met Blog, a reader (like you) interviewed me:

Reader: Will you still blog?
Tara: Hell yeah, it has become too important to me to just stop and I hope to take you all along for the ride with me.

Reader: What will you write about now that you'll be on the West Coast?
Tara: Good question reader. The same stuff as I write about here, my observations about relationships and people, the places I visit, restaurants I eat at, films I see and the crazy stuff that happens to me along the way. Just minus the crowded subway stuff, but I'm sure now I'll have driving issues instead. It will be about me being transplanted to LA - with stories of the coast to coast differentials and of course my activities like it is now.

Reader: But you love NY!
Tara: I do, and it's going to be hard to say goodbye to "the City," but I won't really be saying goodbye because I'm a NYKer and I'm taking that with me. Plus, I'll probably come back eventually and of course will be visiting my family and friends here. Years ago, I went to live in London for 6 months and I didn't know anyone and that was a great experience, I'm hoping this will be the same.

Reader: Will you be able to sleep in a bed that's not 6 inches from the ceiling or located above your kitchen?
Tara: Hmm I've been asking myself the same question. It's definitely going to be a challenge not living in a bitchen. I'm very worried I might get lost in all that extra storage space.

Reader:  Will you get a car?
Tara:  Yes, I'm looking into leasing options now, I'll blog about my final choice and process. I have no idea what I'm doing. I was given my Mom's 91 Honda accord in high school when she got a new Volvo and then I was living in the City where a car wasn't needed so doing all the paper work and getting insurance should be interesting.

Reader:  Near the beach, hmm, does this mean we get to see more bikini pictures?
Tara: Possibly, definitely some roller blading shots at least.

Reader:  Are you going to be a vegetarian now and blog about Tofu?
Tara: I may be leaving the Meat Packing District but not my taste buds. I'm such a carnivore it's not even funny and you know I don't eat vegetables.

Reader: Will you be boring and uncool now that you're in a relationship?
Tara: Well, I've been in one for a few months now, have you been bored? Don't answer that. Besides this blog, I started a MySpace page as well to keep you all updated even more, shoot that just negated me trying to be cool, didn't it?

Now for some wise advice from Dr. Seuss for anyone trying something new and embarking on an adventure:

"Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You're off to Great Places!
You're off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You're on your own.  And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who'll decide where to go.

You'll look up and down streets.  Look 'em over with care.
About some you will say, "I don't choose to go there."
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you're too smart to go down any not-so-good street.

And you may not find any
you'll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you'll head straight out of town.

It's opener there
in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainy
and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen,
don't worry.  Don't stew.
Just go right along.
You'll start happening too.

OH!
THE PLACES YOU'LL GO!" (Full text)

Links: New York Magazine's guide to Los Angeles and 24 Hours in LA


Posted by Tara at 11:59 AM PDT
Updated: Wednesday, September 13, 2006 12:55 PM PDT

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