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When Tara Met Blog
Thursday, July 14, 2005
Here's my card
I really need to stop doing that--giving out my business cards like they were life savers. I think I'm still not over the fact that I have professional cards and not just my personal "freelancer" VistaPrint ones, although I gave those out frequently too.

As you are probably guessing, I give them out most when I am tipsy at events, clubs and once on the subway platform. Sometimes I intend it as friendship, like 'hey, keep in touch, send an email and we'll hang out sometime.' Or you're cute and intelligent, wouldn't mind a call from you. And last but unfortunately not least, I'm wearing wine goggles (I don't drink beer) and look how thick and pretty these cards are.

So lately I've gotten a few No ID/Restricted calls and weird NYC numbers that I don't recognize. I was invited to the Brazilian Film Festival as a result though, lol.

While waiting for the film to start in Bryant Park the other night, my friends and I were talking about how a few months ago at my friends birthday party, when I gave my card to two of her guy friends and it caused a thing. I had met them before at another party and had liked hanging out with them, but one interpreted it that I was looking for a relationship. So I get a phone call saying "Hey, this is Mike," now I know several Mikes and stupidly assume it's my friend Mike and start chatting away until it got weird and I was like "WHO is this?" Turns out it was my friend's friend telling me that he's really busy right now and doesn't have time to spend with me. LOL! First of all, I was shocked that he thought I had meant more by giving him my card and then surprised he actually called to say he wasn't interested. Pretty brave of him. His other friend meanwhile probably thought I was being a player once they found out they both got my card. Grr, embarrassing.

Two nights ago at a Public Relations happy hour mixer, a place where it was appropriate to give out my business cards, I met a woman named Lisa who started DVDFanatic.com. The site is pretty cool and has lots of contests where you can win DVDs. Good luck!

Posted by Tara at 6:26 AM PDT
Updated: Monday, July 18, 2005 10:03 AM PDT

Thursday, July 14, 2005 - 7:32 PM PDT

Name: Steve
Home Page: http://www.tiddiesforever.com/personal/thecouch.htm

Don't feel too bad. I am terrible with my cards also. I wish they came with an invisible string so that I could pull them back into my hand once I realized it.

It always happens to me when I am sitting at a bar, having a drink and feeling a little too good. Someone will strike up a conversation, and talk about work will proceed - and someone I manage to bring out my shiny little card holder and peel one off.

My worst mistake? Giving one to a stripper. What was I thinking?

So, do I get one of your cards?

lol...

Steve

Friday, July 15, 2005 - 6:54 AM PDT

Name: Tara

haha exactly, you sound like me! Yeah an invisible string would be very nice.

So did the stripper call? ;)

Friday, July 15, 2005 - 12:01 PM PDT

Name: Master Foley
Home Page: http://masterfoley.com

I wish I had cards to give away

as for DVDfanatics that site is awesome ...thanks

Friday, July 15, 2005 - 10:51 PM PDT

Name: Steve
Home Page: http://www.tiddiesforever.com

Yes, she did. We actually started to become pretty good friends. Doing goofy things playing Literati online on Saturday nights and once she showed up at an after work social meeting at a bar and did some serious acting, helping me gracefully exit a sticky situation I had created with a co-worker (out of complete boredom). We were only friends, but in the end she became like all strippers and was only out for what she could get ($) from me. When it became clear I was not a not going to be an income stream, things cooled off quite a bit.

I still get the occasional "life update" from her, which is cool - but maybe in the end she taught me a good lesson about when *not* to give out my card.

Steve

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