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Friday, April 6, 2007
Thanks, you too

I have the affliction of not being able to stop myself from saying "thanks, you too," when someone says something polite even though it doesn't really fit the situation. Let me give you an example. The guy collecting and ripping movie theater tickets, hands me my stub and says, "enjoy the show." Now here is where I'll automatically respond, "thanks, you too!" Then there's that awkward stare when I realize he's not watching a movie, I am, and he doesn't want to be rude and correct me either so he just nods at the blond girl and I walk away rolling my eyes skyward in annoyance at myself. 

When the waitress goes, "enjoy your meal," I again say "thanks, you too." Grr. 

It probably started by me getting used to saying "thanks, you too," to people when they wished me a good day, there it applies at least, but then my standard response became contagious I guess.

PS: We hate Ed Duggan and his manipulative journalism. No "thanks, you too" for him.

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Posted by Tara at 12:01 AM PDT
Updated: Friday, April 6, 2007 1:46 PM PDT

Friday, April 6, 2007 - 12:05 AM PDT

Name: "keahgirl8"

You are not alone my friend.  I do that too. lol

Saturday, April 7, 2007 - 5:03 PM PDT

Name: "H. (aka NC_State_gal)"
Home Page: http://justanotherweek.blogspot.com

Being the self-centered person that I am...your post actually reminded me that I do something VERY similar.  Yet, my equivalent is "Oops, sorry".  In fact, many of my work colleagues, and some ex boyfriends ,  remind me that I'm not at fault for things that I often apologize for.  This, I can actually trace back to my upbringing.  When speaking in Japanese, my mom often says "Ah, sumimasen", or "gomennasai" as a pleasantry.  Asking someone's pardon is quite frequent and considered good upbringing in Japanese culture.  Somehow, my mother instilled that in me, even though in this American culture that I am a part of doesn't view it in the same fashion.

 Okay...enough egocentricity :)....

Wednesday, April 11, 2007 - 2:25 PM PDT

Name: "Farrah Rochon"
Home Page: http://www.farrahrochon.com

I do the same thing with answering the phones at my job. I say "thank you" when I don't have to. It drives me CRAZY, but I never remember to catch myself. Glad to see I'm not the only one. :)

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