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When Tara Met Blog
Monday, December 18, 2006
Tis the season of giving
On Sunday from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m., my colleagues and I donated our time, hugs and muscles to One Voice’s Holiday Drive, a non profit organization helping families living at poverty level to receive what they need for a Christmas meal, as well as toys and books for the children so that they can have presents on Christmas day.

At 8 a.m. we met at the Santa Monica airport and were assigned to a center in Compton in South Central LA, where we set up the different stations for when the families arrived to get their meal supplies and gifts.

As the hundreds of families started to arrive, I was assigned to what I called “The Great Wall of Turkeys,”  where just an hour earlier we had put the 16-19 pound frozen turkeys into double wrapped plastic bags and lined them up outside in the shade. My job was to give the heavy turkeys to the volunteer “schlepers” (mostly guys) who were assisting the families through each station and carrying the items for them in big cardboard boxes. When a team of schlepers had their hands full, I’d carry the massive cold turkey out to the family’s car with them. At first it was fine, but two hours later, just lifting the turkeys to give to the other volunteers hurt. As a result, my arms were sore the next day and my hands were callused from the pressure from the plastic bags, but of course it was worth it. Nothing like manual labor and giving back to put you in the holiday spirit. I definitely left all the more thankful for what I have and happy to have helped others.

The best part of the job was giving hugs to the little kids. I’d pick up some of them up, much to their delight and swoop them around a bit in the air. When I opened my arms for one little girl, she ran from several feet away right into my arms and wrapped her legs around me. I almost kidnapped the cherub right then and there. Even the parents, were equally as happy to have a hug and exchange holiday wishes too. Some of the parents had tears in their eyes as they thanked everyone and were taking photos of their child with Santa. Some of the families had nine in total and the organizer at the center said to be classified in the poverty level means their household makes less than 7k a year!


Posted by Tara at 3:27 PM PST
Updated: Tuesday, December 19, 2006 3:18 PM PST

Wednesday, December 20, 2006 - 9:49 AM PST

Name: "anonymous"

Nothing like manual labor and giving back to put you in the holiday spirit.
-- Geez.  You do realize that the recipients of your so-called charity are probably manual laborers right?  I'm not sure what's more galling, your insensitivity (go ahead, ask any of these poor people if doing their jobs leaves them all cozy, warm and cheery) or your vanity (I love how you put things in perspective by mentioning your day-after sores and pains.).  Now that you've posted your self-congratulatory bit, go and have a happy holiday!

Wednesday, December 20, 2006 - 2:38 PM PST

Name: "Julia G"
Home Page: http://www.fusionpr.com/blog

This is a fantastic idea - kudos to whomever discovered this charity and to the entire LA team for participating. I hope we can continue to dedicate our time to such inspiring activities. I was thinking Fusion does Habitat for Humanity (we build our clients' reputations in the office, now let's build some homes!)

- Julia

Wednesday, December 20, 2006 - 2:49 PM PST

Name: "Tara"

Geez anonymous, I was just trying to encourage others to do more charity events and yes this little desk job girl was sore.  My colleagues and I were saying as we complained about our soreness that this is what it would be like if we did have manual labor jobs and how fortunate we were.  Also, we didn't have a break those 6 hours or food, we also did the most work there (lots of lazy guys and angry teenagers just sat there). Plus most jobs, even manual labor ones, have breaks remember and we'd also be more accustomed to those jobs. 

Every family there was grateful and not hateful like you, they were warm and happy to be there, as were we.

If I was being at all self-congratulatory, well then I deserve to, because I worked my ass off and gave back, when not everyone does and when people like you make it easy to not even bother helping other and being a humbug.

Happy holidays to you too jerk! 

Wednesday, December 20, 2006 - 7:01 PM PST

Name: "steve"
Home Page: http://www.piratesandals.com

"anonymous" wrote:
Nothing like manual labor and giving back to put you in the holiday spirit.
-- Geez.  You do realize that the recipients of your so-called charity are probably manual laborers right?  I'm not sure what's more galling, your insensitivity (go ahead, ask any of these poor people if doing their jobs leaves them all cozy, warm and cheery) or your vanity (I love how you put things in perspective by mentioning your day-after sores and pains.).  Now that you've posted your self-congratulatory bit, go and have a happy holiday!

Dear Anonymous -

You should really lighten up on Tara and focus on what she is trying to accomplish with that story.  It is obvious you are feeling guilty about your own lack of charity - I know I did, but instead of lashing out against her why don't you take the experience in and decide how you might give something back?  I think it was interesting to learn the details of her experience - including the aches and pains from the next day.   She is not being self-congratulatory, instead, she is being descriptive and made it clear it is something she doesn't usually do.

Chances are those poverty level people were not manual laborers.  I like how you spit that out as if it were an insult to work with your hands - that manual labor means you will be poor.  There is a good chance that the familes that benefited from that event are the people who prepare your McLunch or sell you something cheap at Wal-Mart.

 And since when is volunteering and giving something back to a community that is new to you considered insensitive?

At least she is attempting to learn something about a group of people she does not interface with on a normal basis - something you, evidently, have never taken time to do.

~Steve 

Thursday, December 21, 2006 - 10:39 AM PST

Name: "NYro"

Wow T, I can't believe you actually dignified the "anonymous" comment with a response.  What a coward to not even sign his/her name.

I have never seen such a negative and bombastic response to someone sharing their story of volunteer work.  I know about the organization you helped.  In fact, most are not "laborers" but single parents.

Responses like this are from people filled with anger.  Truly your post was an altruistic story sharing your experience of helping others during the holiday season.  If everyone did their part, this world would be a much happier place.  If you do it once a year, once every 3 years, you're still taking time out of your busy day for the goodwill of others.  KUDOS TARA!

Keep shining for all to see - you're a gem and don't let anyone let you believe otherwise.

'Tis the season of giving...goodwill and warmth.  There is no room in this world for such malevolence.  The world has enough of that already.

Thursday, December 21, 2006 - 6:25 PM PST

Name: "Karen"

Who is that anonymous douche bag who probably doesn't know the meaning of charity? All talk and no manual labor. Dumbass.

Thursday, December 21, 2006 - 7:58 PM PST

Name: "H. (aka. NC_State_gal)"
Home Page: http://justanotherweek.blogspot.com

Wow...obviously there is a grinch in the blogging midsts.  Those trolls just love to come out from under their damn bridges to hurl insults.  I, myself, think that community service is a wonderful thing.  It is sharing in HUMANITY...something obviously some Anonymous trolls take offense to.

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